If you’re not mentoring, you should be – and I want to gently walk you through why.
As Christian women, we’re called not just to grow in our own faith, but to invest in the spiritual lives of others. Whether you’ve been considering mentorship but feel unsure where to begin, or you’ve never thought of yourself as a mentor at all, this post will help shift your perspective and inspire you to take your next step.
Let’s explore five reasons why mentoring is part of God’s design for your life – and why now is the time to start.
“Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good…” - Titus 2:3-5
The biblical model of discipleship includes women mentoring women. Titus 2 clearly outlines that older women are to teach and encourage younger women in godly living. This isn’t just about age – it’s about spiritual maturity and a willingness to pass on wisdom to the next generation.
This pattern is God-ordained, and it’s a beautiful way to multiply faith and knit the body of Christ closer together. Whether you’re officially mentoring someone or not, Scripture calls us to be both mentored and mentoring.
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” - Proverbs 27:17
Mentorship is not one-sided. As you help a younger woman grow in her faith, you’ll find yourself growing too. Your mentee will ask questions that challenge you, stretch your thinking, and invite you deeper into God’s Word. This dynamic sharpens both hearts, leading you both toward maturity in Christ.
“Give thanks to the Lord, call upon his name, make known his deeds among the peoples!” - Psalm 105:1-2
Your life – the good, the hard, and the redeemed – has purpose in someone else’s story. Mentoring allows you to share how God has worked in your life in a way that points your mentee to Jesus. You get to pass on the wisdom, lessons, and even the mistakes, so someone else can walk stronger because of what you’ve been through.
“Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.” - 1 Corinthians 11:1
Mentoring challenges you to lead by example. When you know someone is watching, you naturally seek to walk more closely with the Lord. Like motherhood, mentoring encourages integrity and spiritual intentionality. It’s a gentle nudge toward living a life that reflects Jesus – because someone else is learning from you.
Ask yourself: Am I living a life worth imitating?
“Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” - James 5:16
Too many women in the church feel isolated – despite being involved in Bible studies, small groups, and events. Cliques can form, and genuine connection can be hard to find. Mentoring cuts through that isolation. Imagine the power of an older woman intentionally reaching out, praying specifically, and walking alongside a younger woman.
That kind of connection changes lives. I know because I’ve experienced both the loneliness and the beauty of being brought in.
I get it. Mentoring can feel intimidating, especially if you’ve never had a mentor yourself. When I asked a woman at church to mentor me, she had never mentored anyone before. We fumbled through together – and those early struggles are part of the reason I created Risen Mentor. You are not alone in not knowing what you’re doing. But you can learn. And you can start.
If you’re ready to take your first step, here’s what I recommend:
Keep reading the Blog.
Each post is designed to help you grow spiritually and practically as a mentor.
Download the free Mentor’s Manual.
It’s a 20-page guide to help you define your role, connect with your mentee, and mentor with confidence – whether you’re already mentoring or preparing to begin. Grab your copy here.
Pray.
Ask God to bring a mentee into your life – and if you don’t yet have a mentor, ask Him to provide one for you too.
REMEMBER:
Mentoring isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being willing. Willing to show up, to share your faith, and to point another woman to Jesus. And if God is nudging your heart in this area, don’t ignore it - He has good work for you to do.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this post! I hope it encouraged and equipped you to step into your role as a mentor with confidence and clarity.
If you found this helpful, I’d love for you to share it with another Christian woman who could use this wisdom too. Let’s spread the power of mentoring together! 💕
For more insights and encouragement, be sure to follow me on Instagram @risenmentor. Let’s connect and continue growing in this beautiful journey of mentorship!
Until next time, keep walking in faith and mentoring well!
I equip and encourage Christian women to mentor, and to mentor well.
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